AdorableKaren
Asian Elite
My bf and I are available to cuddle 
with you Andrew lol
with you Andrew lol
new girl from ohio
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Eric Smit
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AndrewGS
Ultimo Hombre
My bf and I are available to cuddle
I'm pretty sure I don't want to cuddle with a dude, thanks.
I was 399lbs. a month ago. I started eating a drinking better last Monday and today I was 380lbs.
AdorableKaren
Asian Elite
rdss
Junior Member
Keep working on your food/drink intake and start going for walks. When you give up on yourself it really puts off people that might actually care and support you. I've been trying to live with the old saying "If you're not happy with yourself, how can others be happy with you?". Don't look for acceptance from others, stop feeling sorry for yourself, excercise, eat right and **** will get better..... Or, keep feeling sorry for youself and fail at life.
AndrewGS
Ultimo Hombre
Wow, in my 20 years of therapy and medication along with healthy doses of ridicule and rejection from 80% of people I've tried to interact with, I've never thought of it that way!
AdorableKaren
Asian Elite
I like your advice rdss..if you're not happy with yourself, how can others be happy with you?
rdss
Junior Member
That's the truth. With all the stuff I have gone through over the past 20 months I have learned that the only thing that really matters to me is my son and myself. I take care of the main two everything else will fall into place as it has been doing for the last 7 or 8 months now. I did have to except that I was at the bottom and that I was done descending to rebuild though.
And Andrew, take it as you want. You're the key to your success, no one else. One thing I might have that you may not is a few really good friends that helped me through my rough time.
And Andrew, take it as you want. You're the key to your success, no one else. One thing I might have that you may not is a few really good friends that helped me through my rough time.
AndrewGS
Ultimo Hombre
I'm glad that positive thinking gets you through, I really am, but play with the hand I've been dealt for 20 years and I'll show you the meaning of hopelessness. No, I'm not homeless or penniless, I'm friendless and in bad health. I'd trade places with a popular broke guy any day.
rdss
Junior Member
Dude, just throw your head phones on, play some music and go for a walk around the block. It will clear your head and after a few months you might be able start to jog a 1/4 of it, then 1/2..... I don't know you, I'm not a therapist but you're the only one that can possible fix all that has gone wrong in your head and life. But, I'm done. Good luck man.
wingman
Active member
If that was the only way I could lay next to her, I'd do it.
And congratulations. Happy belated birthday!
AndrewGS
Ultimo Hombre
lambertsonic
Member
If you want to be successfull in life , the one thing you have to be is confident in yourself that all . Like Rdss said , everything will fall into place .
rdss
Junior Member
And one more addition, it wont happen over night! And! I'm spent!!
acire91
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Eric Smit
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TheFallenAngel12
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I was reading through and saw your trying to loose weight. Best of Luck in your efforts man. serious. its tough. it wont be easy. but with the right mindset and determination you can do it. Keep doing what your doing, eat right, drink right and go out for walks or whatever and before you know it the pounds will just fall right off. As others have said its not an overnight thing. I was 295lb when i was in school. I was far from the ideal weight. last couple years of school i decided it was time to change. I did as you did, changed what i was eating and drinking, did more outdoor activities and in the last 2 years of school i lost 45lbs. I kept myself going over the years and after that and ive now gotten myself down to 210lbs. after school i did get a little lazy but ive recently picked back up on it and im dropping weight again. Just keep a positive mindset and stick to your goals and anything is possible man. You can do it!