this statement is only partially accurate, the weight of the wheels depends on what wheels you get, bigger diameter doesn't always mean a heavier wheel.
as for the question, i believe i commented on another one of your threads already OP, but my wheels are 18x8 with 225/40-18 tires up front and 215/40-18 tires in the rear, im lowered on coilovers, and my car rides like poo but it looks good so who cares right? lol jk jk, it does ride like poo, but only because i have my coilovers set pretty stiff to help the car perform better in the type of racing i do. i could easily adjust the coils after each event but I'm lazy lol